Traditionally this is a tactic men should apparently use to make the woman ‘want them’ more, but we’ve heard of lots of women using this tactic too. If you wait three days to reply to someone after a successful date you’re basically saying ‘I like to mess with people’.Everybody knows that it only takes a few seconds to write a text message, no matter how busy they are.Here it is: It really frustrates me that when I don’t see him, that we barely speak on the phone…It’s just that I would like to talk to him more when I’m not able to see him and when I don’t, I feel disconnected.I think it’s partially my fault, since following your advice, I got out and dated more than one guy at the beginning and did not call the guys but generally waited for them to call (new concept for me and it actually worked, thanks! Eventually he rose to the top and we started dating exclusively and I continued to let him initiate most of the calls but now I don’t know if he’s gotten ‘settled in’, but when I don’t see him, he doesn’t call that often.
" Perhaps, it's time to re-teach dating etiquette in the hopes that a few young guys and girls can reject the ambiguity of current dating trends in favor of a straightforward and respectful approach – one that takes place in real life and not just on the Internet. (Of course, this was back when girls had to actually call the “house phone" – a word I have had to teach my sons).At any rate it is one of the best, if not the best, relationship, I have ever been in, however there is only one thing that bothers me and that I don’t know how to address it.I have been debating even asking you as it seemed trivial at first, however I don’t feel that it is.I also followed your Tao of Dating principles, which was beyond enlightening for me, as it turned the tables and made me responsible for doing my own housework and trying to be the goddess and I still think ‘What would a goddess do?’ when I’m in a situation that hurts or annoys me and this goddess-thinking prevents me from acting needy or overly emotional!