The world is divided into two groups of people: those who think it's OK to date a friend's ex and those who believe it's completely off-limits.When you and your friend are both in the "OK" camp, it can work if they date your ex, or you theirs.Well, me and this guy started sleeping together about two weeks ago and we're crazy about each other. My feeling is that she would be very hurt, but at the same time I don't want to pass up a chance to be with someone who could turn out to be the love of my life, you know?So a part of me wants to tell her in the hopes that she would be happy for me, but when I put myself in her shoes hearing this news, I think I'd be devastated.I don’t say this to judge or to blame, but I think it is important to be clear about what has been happening.She will very likely be devastated and feel betrayed by her best friend and by the man she thought she had a lasting future with.But in the mean time, while I wait for the car to arrive (I still can’t drive, folks, even though I got the license a year ago and that’s a big problem in a place like Georgia) I thought I’d write something on the blog. Best I could come up with is whether or not you should ever date your friend’s ex wife or ex husband. to date my ex husband is more than just a little bit icky.
Nevertheless, Brian thought about it and decided to contact Angie anyway.I'm torn between my own desire for lasting relationship bliss and my desire to preserve the most important friendship in my life. —Something Has to Give Submit Your Own Question to a Therapist Your friend is going to be hurt. When you made the choice to start hanging out with your best friend’s ex without telling her, that’s when you made the decision to hide your actions, and possibly your feelings, from her.On some level you must have known that she would be bothered by it, and you chose not to tell her.(he's the type of guy that every girl would want) Anyways 4 months ago we started going out and now we're officially dating and I'm really happy with him, he makes me feel super special, loved and wanted.She's my friend and I love her and I'm not betraying her, she left him and now she's super mad at me and saying that I'm the worst friend ever and that I destroyed her happiness she is delusional.